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Introduction
In 2018 psychologists ran experiments and found something surprising.
Giving advice to someone else raises your own confidence more than following advice you already gave yourself.
This happens because giving advice makes you feel you have real influence over another
person.
The same brain rule still applies to you every day.
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What The Research Confirmed
People who gave advice felt a clear boost in confidence and sense of power.
This boost was stronger than when they simply remembered or followed their own earlier advice.
The key reason is the feeling of influence: you see your words shaping someone else’s choice.
People who enjoy feeling in control are more likely to give advice in the first place.
Why This Matters For You
You do not have to be an expert to feel this effect.
Every time you give advice — to a friend, colleague, or family member — your brain registers it as a small win of influence.
That win quietly lifts your own confidence.
Most people chase confidence by seeking advice. The research shows the faster path is often the other way around.
What can we learn from this
Giving advice is not just helpful to others.
It quietly builds your own confidence through a sense of influence.
Your brain treats the act of advising as proof you matter.
Use it intentionally and your confidence grows without extra effort.
References:
Schaerer M et al. Advice Giving: A Subtle Pathway to Power. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2018. PMID: 29359627